One of Wendy’s clients, Paul, wanted to be able to develop a long-term relationship with a woman and settle down with her. He discovered that he ‘put on a fantastic dressing up costume’ so that a potential partner wouldn’t see the real him and be put off by ways in which he wasn’t perfect.

Once he became aware of this, he also came to realise that this also prevented the woman from seeing any of the ways in which he might be perfect for her. This was the start of him going out in his ‘everyday clothes’ with women and his relationships with women have steadily improved since then.

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