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Clean Language is ideal for this as it so deeply respects the client’s right to feel what they feel without being ‘judged’. Changes that emerge from within an individual, rather than being imposed from outside, are truly theirs. This ownership of the change process can have a great effect on a person’s self-esteem. As with coaching, we mix working face to face with working by telephone to suit the situation. We avoid giving ‘one-size-doesn't-quite-fit-anyone' advice or suggestions. We believe fundamentally that, in almost every case, the resources that a person needs to build the life they want to lead are to be found inside them. We work using Clean Language and Symbolic Modelling and, as experienced NLP practitioners, we have access to a wealth of techniques from the world of NLP which can be called on if required. Paul’s story: Paul wanted to be able to develop a long-term relationship with a woman and settle down with her. He discovered that he ‘put on a fantastic dressing up costume' so that a potential partner wouldn't see the real him and be put off by ways in which he wasn't perfect. Once he became aware of this, he also came to realise that this also prevented the woman from seeing any of the ways in which he might be perfect for her. This was the start of him going out in his ‘everyday clothes' with women and his relationships with women have steadily improved since then. Email Wendy in person at Small Change Company or call +44 (0) 20 8400 8432. |